Everyone of us use this understatement ‘WHY DOES GOD NEVER ANSWER MY PRAYERS?’ many times in our lifetime and many who been believers have become atheists because of the same. I personally thought the same many times when I really wanted a breakthrough in my life. It was the other day some thought occurred in my mind where it all made sense to me and want to share with you.

It is said in the Gospel of Mathew- “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. (‭Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭7-8‬ NIV). Then why do some of our prayers not get answered? Some say a prayer has 3 answers. Sometimes it’s yes, no and wait, of course, that’s the only 3 ways a prayer could be answered but I think a better answer lies in the next verses of the above passage.

“Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!” (‭Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭9-11‬ NIV)
. The same passage is mentioned in Luke chapter 11. “Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead? Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!” (‭Luke‬ ‭11‬:‭11-13‬ NIV).
I am sure most of you have read this passage many times before and as plainly as it is written we understand if we the sinners and evil ones care for our children this much how much more does our Father in heaven loves and takes care for us. Then why do our prayers go unanswered?


Consider the scenario where you take care of a baby. The baby is on your shoulder and you are carrying the baby on your shoulders and walking in the house. Suddenly the baby spots a bottle of glue or any other harmful substance sitting on the corner of a desk. Baby starts crying to get that bottle. Will you give that bottle to the baby? Of course not! Why? Because you know the baby doesn’t know what glue is or it can harm him/ her. So you try to get the baby’s attention to something else, but the baby starts crying. What will do you do now? No matter how much ever the baby cries you not giving the bottle to the baby. Why? Because you love the baby and knows if you give him/her that bottle the baby can swallow it and can cause some serious trouble. The baby might be hungry and in his/ her mind, it’s a bottle of food, but we know it’s not a food but can cause serious problems if ingested. So we never give the baby that bottle.


Hold that thought. Now put ourselves in the place of that baby and God as the one who takes care of us. We might be in need of a job, car, house or anything so desperately and then you suddenly spot a similar opening at some place and you start praying to God asking to give you that opportunity. But you have no idea like the baby it is a bottle of glue or some other poison which can harm you and you keep on crying to see a breakthrough and nothing happens. Why? As said your Father in Heaven who takes care of you knows exactly what it is rather than how much you are desperate for it. He won’t give you anything that can harm you or take you away from his plans. He will give you only with the very best.

Sometimes we are hungry and we are asking for food we see it as bread, whereas it is actually a stone or we ask for fish, but it actually is a snake or we ask for egg but it actually is a scorpion! Imagine what will happen if we were given any of the above choices? A stone doesn’t help you for bread, but the snake and the scorpion can harm and kill you. This is how exactly we see opportunities. As soon as we see an opportunity we aim for it and starts praying. Sometimes it’s a stone, but at times it can be a snake or a scorpion which can bring the end to your life. So when you see your prayers are not answered even when you think it is the most needed time, understand it might not be the same results as how you sees it. 

God is a good God and gives only the best for you. Jeremiah 29:11 says “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (‭Jeremiah‬ ‭29‬:‭11‬ NIV). Where we see no hope for our future the one who created you knows exactly the plans he made you for and will bring out the very best for you. So no matter what trust God even when all prayer seems unanswered for surely there is an answer coming coming soon.

True, we have plans for our lives, but God has greater and better plans for us. His thoughts and plans are as high as the sky to the earth. We think at earth level and our plans are such small ones, but the one who created you have such high plans that are as high as the skies! He will never leave you alone, nor will He give up on you. Like a rain comes to a drought, land and quenches its thirst God will send his words to quench every thirst of your life.

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts. As the rain and the snow come down from heaven, and do not return to it without watering the earth and making it bud and flourish, so that it yields seed for the sower and bread for the eater, so is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it. (‭Isaiah‬ ‭55‬:‭8-11‬ NIV).”

So am I saying don’t pursue opportunities? Absolutely not. Pray for it and apply for it. But instead of praying God, I want this opportunity, pray God I would really like to have this opportunity, please give it only if your plans for my life fulfills through it.

There is definitely a great hope and future for you, so no matter what you go through hang in there, keep on praying for there is a reward and your hope will not be cut off.

“There is surely a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off. (‭Proverbs‬ ‭23‬:‭18‬ NIV).”


Remember Joseph’s life. He was in jail for no reason. When he explained the dream to the wine master he thought it could help him to get out of the jail. But the wine aster forgot Joseph. But when the time came God made the Pharaoh to have a dream and made the wine master to remember Joseph and get him out of the jail to become the prime minister in Egypt! If the wine master had remembered Joseph earlier when he got out of jail, Joseph might have got out of the prison, but he never would have become the Prime Minister of Egypt. God has great plans for you. So when all your prayers go unanswered, trust God more and don’t lose hope for surely there is a reward and your hope will never be cut off.



  1. Such a great post! I agree with you completely that so many misunderstand that scripture and think that God is going to answer every prayer they pray; that He’s like a genie in a bottle, ready to grant their every wish. What’s greatly misunderstood in most cases is that when our prayers are according to His will, He answers, and even then it’s in His perfect timing which is always going to be what’s best for us. God is always going to do what is best for us, even though we may not see it that way. He told the prophet Jeremiah “I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.” (Jer 29:11)
    If I may, I’d like to share something that’s helped me tremendously in my prayer life… praying scripture. Scripture is God’s truth and you can’t go wrong praying His truth. 🙂
    I pray our LORD gives you grace, mercy and peace my brother.
    His daughter,

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  2. I am going to respectfully disagree with your premise that Christians have unanswered prayers. As God’s children we can have the confidence to know that when we go to our Father in prayer He does hear us and will answer us. For the Christian there is no such thing as an unanswered prayer. Instead, as children of God we understand that not all answers are known to us right away but all prayers are answered immediately. It is the action of those answers that may take some time.

    1 John 5:14 – “And this is the confidence that we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us.”

    Important to note the caveat John provides in v. 14, “according to his will.” As you allude to, we are often prone to seeking God’s answer to our prayer that fits with our plan instead of His, we are really praying in our will not the Lord’s. James covers this in James 4:3 – “You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.”

    We don’t get what we desire because we don’t ask or we ask with wrong motives.

    John 9:31 – “We know that God does not listen to sinners, but if anyone is a worshiper of God and does his will, God listens to him.”

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    • Dear sir, I didn’t say God doesn’t hear or answer our prayers, but as you see in the article, we may not get the answer as we expect at the time we anticipate we need the answer and makes us think ‘why God’s not answering my prayer when I need the most?’ But the fact is even before asking God knows exactly our needs and He’s already provided a provision, but it feels like to us as if it takes a little longer to receive it, but the fact is God provides everything in perfect time whether you expect it or not! Not a minute early or late!

      “But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.”
      ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭6:6-8‬ ‭NIV‬‬

      I really appreciate your input sir. Thanks for the thought. Please visit again


  3. wonderful post.
    I really love this part that says:
    “There is definitely a great hope and future for you, so no matter what you go through hang in there, keep on praying for there is a reward and your hope will not be cut off”.

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  4. Sometimes God’s answer doesn’t look like what we expected. Sometimes His answer is “wait”. Sometimes we are simply praying outside His will or His Word. Sometimes we aren’t listening or do not want to hear His answer….God does answer. I would also say to anyone who says, “God NEVER answers”…..NEVER? Not once? “never” is a strong word.

    Also, examine the season you are in. We all go through seasons of testing. A pastor in Nashville, Johh Ragsdale (The Hills) says, “The teacher is silent during the test.” And “If you fail, there is always a re-test.”

    We must start praying grown up prayers. Prayers modeled out of the Word of God or coming directly from the Word of God.

    God is NOT Santa or a genie. He could be but He is much more concerned with our character than He is with our comfort….

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    • Thank you ma’am, that’s the whole point of the article. To people who thinks why God never answers my prayers it’s a brief passage saying what could have been happening. You know Isaiah 55:8-9 says -““For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.”
      ‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭55:8-9‬ ‭NIV‬‬
      & Jeremiah says
      “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
      ‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭29:11‬ ‭NIV‬‬

      Surely God has got a great Hope and Future for everyone and His plans and thoughts are far higher than ours and He thinks and values us more than what we can ever think off and more importantly His plans are not to harm or hurt us, but for a bright and better future!

      Anyway thanks for sharing your view and for the encouragement. God Bless!


  5. Nicely written. Note: even Jesus in the garden prayed and prayed until he sweat blood for God to take the cup away from him however interestingly Jesus said: God let your will be done and not mine. If Jesus prayed this and was obedient how much more should we. Imagine what would of happened if Jesus had his want at that time? We would all be lost and saving would not even be an option to us. Jesus knew that God knows best and so should we. Another good note is: Jesus had a relationship with God and daily communication – constantly. The bible says we should become like Jesus, thus his teachings tells us allot. We can only live this life with God and we can only be saved because of God’s grace. It’s not about us, it’s about God

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  6. I am sure our prayers are answered if so justified to God, only that we dnt realise, we are not sooo keen on it, sometyms it may take longer and answered moment when we have given up, or may not be answered, only God knows why!!
    It can be a contradiction with the scripture… Ask and will be given to you.

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